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03Desire & relationships63°

Desire isn't a number, it's a rhythm.

Every adult has a hidden desire and a libido in the needs panel. Hormones, mood, dreams and love languages reshape it every day.

Screenshot · Desire & relationshipsThe needs panel open with the libido bar; the Sim is 'Horny'.
100points of hidden desire
5love languages
4relationship agreements
3separate kinds of jealousy

What's the difference?

  • The usual: A romance bar fills up, and that's itHedonic Heat: Desire rises and fades, led by hormones and mood
  • The usual: Everyone is happy with the same thingHedonic Heat: Five love languages: words, gifts, service, time, touch
  • The usual: Anyone else is always cheatingHedonic Heat: Open, swinging or polyamorous: the couple sets the rules
  • The usual: Nights are only for sleepingHedonic Heat: Steamy dreams, morning wake-ups, 'Come to Bed'

03.1

Libido, driven by hormones.

A good scene fills the bar; time drains it. The body sets the pace: in a female body it speeds up toward ovulation, in a male body it peaks in the morning.

  • 'Horny' at 45, 'Unbearable Lust' at 80
  • Empty for long: 'Restless', then 'Sexual Hunger'
  • Each Sim has their own base: low, normal or high
  • Flirting, seeing someone naked or watching a scene raises it
Screenshot 03.1The needs panel: libido bar and the 'Horny' mood.

03.2

Everyone has a love language.

Every adult has a primary and sometimes a secondary love language. What they love fills their heart toward you; a full heart supports consent, desire and satisfaction.

  • It shows as '?' at first; learn it by their reactions or by asking
  • 'Valued' and 'Neglected' moods
  • A first time with a full heart leaves a lovely memory
  • You can change your own love language
Screenshot 03.2A warm moment of a couple spending time together.

03.3

The couple sets the rules.

Monogamous, open, swinging or polyamorous. The agreement belongs to the couple, not the Sim; what's allowed brings no jealousy or cheating, and breaking the rule shakes the relationship.

  • 'Shall we swap partners?': one day of freedom
  • NPC couples make their own agreements too
  • Emotional, physical and sexual jealousy, each on its own
  • Intimate Memories: who did what, in the game's own journal
Screenshot 03.3A couple talking while someone watches jealously behind them.

03.4

Nights don't stop.

A sleeping Sim dreams of someone they know and may wake up with a 'Wet Awakening'. Meet someone with very high attraction, and you'll likely see them in your dreams that night.

  • Share Dream social
  • Showering together: stall, tub or open shower
  • Grinding dance at a stereo or DJ booth
  • Passionate socials: long kiss, caress, spank
Screenshot 03.4A sleeping Sim with a portrait thought bubble above.
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